These are just my rambling thoughts, insights, memories, frustrations, praises,---the defragging of my mind. Just a way to share my ups and downs, sillies and weepies, hopes and dreams with those who care to read about them.

Friday, July 30, 2010

Our new puppy











This is Lulu, our newest family member. She is 5 months old--a shelter dog--who was waiting just for us. We are both smitten as she has a great personality. The cats, on the other hand, are pretty disgusted that we would consider rocking their peaceful world. Cats no longer rule in the Barlow home.....








Our Family Reunion

Each summer our family gets together for a family reunion. We have bopped all over the state and even into Oklahoma over the past 10 summers until we finally found the perfect place. We found Ft. Parker State Park that has a whole barracks--9 buildings you can rent for $300 a night. So that is where our 10 families head for three nights in the middle of summer--good ole' hot, humid east Texas. BUT.....this facility comes with 4 cabins and a huge dining hall/commercial size kitchen that is AIR-CONDITIONED. So it never matters to us what the weather may bring. We have our own fishing pier and baseball field, two bathhouses, and a game room, too. And it is secluded away from rest of park so it is only us so we can hoop and holler all we want without disturbing others. A great place for family fun.
Most of our time is spent playing games---dominoes, Banana-grams, Sequence, Spades, Twenty-five Words, Small World, and many others. The toddlers can run around and play with their cars, run up and down the Corn Hole boards, and spend hours out on the big back porch blowing bubbles. Much fishing goes on, too, and the kids run all around the place. And we eat a lot. Each family (10 families) brings two snacks to share and we divide the meals into teams of two families so each family only has to cook one meal and we have really yummy meals. Lunch we just snack through or bring sandwich stuff or eat leftovers. There is a huge icemaker so we never run out of ice. It is not a luxurious place but it is very comfortable and user friendly.
There are four big cabins with 20 bunks in each plus a staff cabin (which us old folks get priority of as it has its own bathrooms). It is just a perfect place for us. And it is pretty equal driving distance for everyone but those San Angelo folks.
This year we added a really fun adventure to our reunion that I hope we do every year. Tammie worked very hard and came up with 19 challenges for us to have our very own AMAZING RACE. She divided us into 5 teams--the youngest kids were selected as team captains and they chose their teams so we had good mixtures of kids and various family members. Here are the challenges we did:

1. Throw a tortilla into a hula hoop from a distance. Each team member had to get theirs in the hoop before we could go on.
2. Each team member had to hit a baseball and catch a baseball being hit.
3. One team member had to smash eggs on his forehead until he found one that was NOT hard boiled.
4. Each team had to put together a jig saw puzzle and then dig through a bucket of puzzle pieces to find our one missing piece.
5. One team member had to throw a marshmallow off the top step of porch into each team member's mouth.
6. Each team had to make a paper airplane from newspaper and sail it across the road.
7. A piggyback relay where each team member had to carry youngest member from bucket of water where he filled up sponge to cup where he squeezed water out til cup was filled.
8. Went inside to AC in dining hall where twine was strung between two chairs and we had to balance nails by their heads on taught string till we had 5 hung and they hung for 15 seconds.
9. Park sign scramble We had to find a park sign and use the words on sign to find letters to make 5 new words and write them down. Could not use words within a word.
10. Had to drag next to youngest team member in a sheet in a figure 8 pattern around two cabins.
11. There is a big, VERY OLD cemetary across from the cabins in this park and each team was given a name on a grave and a piece of paper and crayon and we had to go find that grave and make a rubbing.
12. Find the coin in a cup by blowing the flour off of it till you could clearly see it--each team member had to do this.
13. Toss water from a cup three feet into a small bucket.
14. Go on a search in a certain wooded area for a tiny brown dog (or whatever animal was on your list)
15. Build a 4 story card house.
16. Get 15 cheetos thrown one at a time to stick on team member's head that had been filled with shaving cream.
17. There was a maze of string tied along railing on each side of boad dock and you had to unravel your string color and bring it back.
18. In game room had to bounce a ping pong ball on a bench so that it would land in bucket. Each team member had to do it.
19. Hang your youngest team member by duct tape onto the backstop of baseball field. He had to hang for 15 seconds with no help.
20. Rush back to site of our weinie roast the night before (which was the huge gas stove in kitchen since we had a huge thunderstorm which did not bode well for our campfire)
*****PHOTOS FOLLOW IN NEXT POST++++
It was so much fun----and so exhausting. Tammie was the hero of the WEEK for coming up with all these ideas and doing all the work to put it together. It was the best memory maker ever.

This reunion was a huge success and went by way too fast. It is just so good to have several days to just relax, talk, laugh, play, and be together. We are all so blessed to be part of this great big crazy patchwork quilt of a family. Thank you, Lord, for blessing us so and putting us all together.

And I must say that we very much missed Adam, Brian, Tammy, Ariel, Jon, Gina, Troy, and Jerry who were unable to come this year and Kara who had to leave early.

Photos of our family's " Amazing Race", Mexia 2010

These are the 5 team leaders: Zane, Brock, Mason, Morgan, Blaine
Grant, Hayden, and Abigail--the youngest family members (who thought we all lost our minds)

That is Tammie on the right end who planned this incredible race. THANK YOU.


Team Blue: Jenny, Mason, Kenzie, Don and Julie



Team Purple: Mace, Jennifer, Zane, and Grace




Team Red: Elizabeth, Josh, David, Christy, and Brock





Team Yellow: Amber, Beki, Rebecca, Morgan, and Bailey






Team Green: Jesse, Amy, Tania, Micah, and Blaine




This challenge was to put together a jigsaw puzzle and then go through a bucket of pieces to find your missing piece.




This challenge was that each team member had to piggyback relay the youngest team member who had to dip a sponge in a bucket and then squeeze it in a cup to fill that cup with water.



This task was to carry/drag the next to youngest team member in a sheet in a figure 8 pattern around two of the cabins.



That is Kenzie they are dragging. This was an exhausting challenge!


Team members had to toss water into bucket from a distance to fill it.


Each team had to build a 4 story card house. Our team finished first because we bent the cards (rules did not say you couldn't....) see next photo of our house





This was a fun challenge. One team member had their head squirted with shaving cream and the rest of team had to throw cheetos one at a time until we had 15 that stuck on her head.








David


Final challenge was to duck tape youngest team member so they hung from the backstop without help for 15 seconds.


Following photos are the teams at the end of the challenge.


Team Green, came in first. Great Job!!






We came in third.



Great job, Tyler family

Uh, no, Beki, you were not first.



David and daughters, Kenzie and Morgan


Aunt Jenny and Kenzie
























Sunday, June 27, 2010

Mixed bag of emotions

It is Sunday morning. Sadly, we did not make it to church---the heart wanted to go but the rest of me just couldn't get it together. So I set about getting the house back in order after Camp Gema. It made me sad even though I am glad that everyone was here and had a good time. But sad that they were gone. I miss the chatter, laughs, and running through the house (even though I always told them to stop running). The rooms are clean and too sterile looking, too quiet. I miss the sound of marbles clomping down the tall towers the boys made and the cheers when a certain marble won. The screen doors are not slamming and no one is saying they are hungry. The floor is dry and there are not shoes and socks lying everywhere. And I found Morgan's tooth that she lost while she was here. And they are all growing up so fast. The bug cage is vacant and I have to go gather the eggs and pick the tomatoes all by myself. The treehouse is empty and the swings are still, and the pond just has fish in it--no squeals of laughter and children bobbing on noodles. How wonderful is the sound of children at play. I miss it.

I am sad the week is over....yet relieved,too. I must confess it wore me out. Not the children themselves as they were all great and there were few if any discipline problems. But the work that goes along with housing 9 children--the feeding, dishwashing, laundry, lunch packing, and all my regular watering and gardening chores. I wanted to be spending time doing stuff with the kids but all this practical stuff got in the way. I thought I had it pretty simple and organized but it just seemed I was on a constant go from 6am til 11pm. By the time it is cool and nice to be outdoors it is past nine so we all had late nights. That was frustrating. I must say the kids were champs at getting up after only one call and getting ready for camp. But back to my frustration, I think I need a maid for the week of Camp Gema. Would be so nice to have someone to fix the meals, wash the dishes and keep up with the laundry. I don't care about the house being clean and neat that week....just picked up enough that stuff is taken care of.

Remember last year, I had all day from 8:30 to 4 that I was home while all kids were at Camp Peniel so I got all that stuff done quickly and easily...but this year I was off having fun with the girls and then had to cram it all in when everyone was home. Please understand I am not complaining but just thinking out loud. AND, Tammy was here last year to help out with dishes and cooking and laundry. So I guess I do under stand why I wore out so quickly. I am just really frustrated with myself for not being able to handle things better and get it all done. But, I really do not think it affected the kids and their fun and that is the most important thing to me. I think I just needed to put down my thoughts on all of this....and it helped me get over that melancholy feeling that came over me while I was cleaning up their rooms. I miss them all and love them all so much. I am so thankful for the week and the fun we had together.

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Camp Gema photos

I give up trying to get pictures in chronological order. On Wednesday, the girls and I hiked Enchanted Rock. It was hot and sunny. We began our climb at 11:15am. We took lots of water and rest breaks though there is not much shade to rest in on this rock. But we did it and reached the top and what a view from the top. We were all very proud of ourselves but so glad to get back to the shade and our lunch and then to the swim pool at LBJ State Park in Stonewall for an afternoon of swimming.




The view at the beginning.




Our first rest stop.





Look how far we have come.






We thought we were near the top, but no, there is still more to climb hiding behind this part.




We made it to the top. The strong breeze felt so good.


This marker proves you are at the summit. WE DID IT !!!



A view from the top.













This was taken that night after we got home--an after-supper swim in the pond at home with Pop-pop.



On Monday we made tye-dyed shirts.





Aren't they pretty?







Then we headed for Krause Springs--a really cold swimming hole near us. It is so beautiful there.



The perfect place to be on a hot summer day.




The girls loved this rope swing.




That's Elizabeth.


That's Kathleen.



And Rebecca.




Can you tell she is a gymnast?



Elizabeth





Morgan




Rebecca and Morgan

Bailey Elizabeth




The cold spring fed swimming pool.

The swimming hole from above.


Elizabeth and her friend, Kathleen
Rebecca
The "teepee tree"


Ok, funny story here. The girls entered this tree and were told by some boys playing in there that they had to leave, it was their tree. Kathleen, who has seven brothers, wasted no time in letting them know the tree belonged to everyone and they were coming in. The boys left, but continued grumbling that it was their tree and the girls needed to leave but Kathleen held her ground and the girls played there for a bit before letting boys have it back.
Bailey and Morgan
Supper time.
The three boys and Ariel attended Camp Peniel Day Camp each day.Ariel


Mason and Blaine

Brock
I will blog later when my brain returns. It was a wonderful, fun week and many cherished memories were made...but Gema is exhausted.